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Well, change can be painful, and getting to know yourself is definitely painful at times...but the rewards are worth it IMHO.

Growth is good.

Keep growing...

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For what its worth.

I have been in a committed marriage for many years. From what I have experienced, a good healthy relationship is when the two persons have a great respect for each others feelings & desires. If each person gives the other the freedom to grow as an individual, it brings more to the relationship. Each should not be dependent on the other for overall happiness. Some people are more needy or insecure and need to be showed love more than others. If one partner feels trampled on or cageded in a relationship, it will have many problems. I know my husband & I in the beginning years tried to mold each other to what we each expected of each other and it doesn't work that way. His jealousy was a result of his insecurites & his ego. Its still not perfect, but we try. We try to love each other "the way we are" and its not always easy to meet each other halfway.

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the problem is obvious. You're basing your L-O-V-E on a microsoft platform where a Unix based system would be much more reliable and secure.



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i'm sorry ini, hope it works out for you..........

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Hi InI. Your going through some emotional rollercoaster my friend.
"The heart is a lonely hunter".
Reading your posts brought back similar feelings I had, in the same kind of situation in my life. And I'm sure many other people reading this have felt the same way too. Not that this is going to "solve" anything for you.
Each day you will be reminded of the gaping hole left in your heart, and it will hurt. Making a drink for one instead of two. The food you eat, the places you used to visit to-gether, music, the people you meet. Everthing will seem to conspire to remind you that you and her are not to-gether. As if that wasn't enough, I have more bad news..
The more you loved her, and I'm sure you love her a lot. The longer it is going to take for you you to feel less pain.
I remember ('cause I wrote it down the first time it happened to me) being amazed that this heartbreak, that I had heard of before, actually hurt, like a real pain. An empty angry sad pain, that you could not control. The mind then rushes about trying to "sort things out", so you lose sleep. You lose too much sleep and that can also effect your mood and judgment, making you feel less able to carry on, which makes your mind work overtime to try to balance things out. And so the cycle feeds itself.
Only time will heal this InI, time and what you do with it.
Be yourself, don't try to DO anything more. You will want someone who loves you for who you are. If they don't, what are you going to do? Ask them what kind of person they would like you to change into?
You sound like an intelligent caring person. I think it is time for you to be intelligent and caring towards yourself. Take some time out, make some new plans, and put them into action.
The heart is a lonely hunter indeed
tao

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