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The main two problems I see here are : Not concentrating on your [b]good[/b] points - with your defeatest atitude, you have already convinced yourself that you won't get a job. Instead of concentrating on what you [b]think[/b] you can't do, concentrate on what you can. A shift in attitude not only makes a world of difference personally, but others recognize the change in body language as well. This includes interviewers. False expectations. I don't know where you got the idea that a big, fat, high-paying job that exactly matches your skills is going to come and swoop you off of your feet, now that you have finished your degree. Life doesn't work like that for 99.999% of the populance of the world. To obtain such, one either needs an incredible amount of luck, and incredible amount of talent (recognized) or know someone with an incredible amount of power and money (influence). Since you probably don't fall into the above catagories, you are just like everyone else - you need to invest a lot of honest hard work, sharpen up your skills on convincing others what you can do and providing evidence of what you can do, and set your goals realistically accordingly. A job is better than no job. Having a job gives you time to look and find a better job, either in the company where you have the job, or in another. In the meantime, you can cover the bills with the current job, and learn new skills, and sharpen old ones (and keep important skills current - this is VERY important!). I can't stress enough the comments that DL has given you - you may not like hearing what he is saying, but it is spot on. Get up off your behind, and get your hands dirty. If you want it, you have to go out and get it. Whining about it will not change anything.
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