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Your Text: Insert Slimies » Insert UBB Code » Close Last Tag \| All Tags UBB Help	cfb - ditto to what bruce said. As hard as it is to walk away - it should be done. "A" needs to get away from S as fast a humanly possible, and then [i]stay out of a relationship[/i] until she can learn to love herself. The damage that S is causing with his emotional abuse that will be very difficult for her to overcome. You may think you will help by being there for her in a "boyfriend" capacity, but that is the last thing she needs right now is the pressure of trying to live up to another man's expectations. Maybe a few years down the road after she's had a chance to become more emotionally independant and stable you can explore something further with her if the feelings are still there. S may be a "really nice guy otherwise" but the things you describe him doing to this girl has a tendency to escalate into heavy duty physical abuse. He needs his own therapist to deal with his own insecurities and needs anger management tactics. Everything about this situation screams [b]not cool[/b]. My brother was in a similar situation a couple of years ago with a girl and figured out very quickly that this was a situation to be avoided at all costs - especially after his "S" had just gotten out of a 90 day stint in jail for assault. Loading...
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