About this thread: http://www.ozoneasylum.com/28075
The Asylum now bugs out when I try to see the last post (call to undefined function blah).
Mage and Jestah, there, have stated this asylum is a place where people can speak harshly if they feel so,
and have been challenged to make a point.
All of a sudden, thread locked If I had a need for them to sign, "make a point => I am locking the thread (and have none)", I have to applaude this dual demonstration
of brilliance, moral strength, and sincere willingness to help.
Out of curiosity, would the person with that courage and intelligence dare to at least contact me by email?
As I was saying, I expect nothingness and -bam- thread locked and nothingness.
Gimme more, I am still challenging you two to look at me in the eyes and shift from "nobody likes you and I am a ten years old asking you to grow up",
to at least reasonably finishing what you have hardly begun.
Oh, for precision and the record, this is not aimed at the whole crowd, but my exact last words there were:
quote:
I DARE you. Mage, Jestah, and anyone who is really able to bring anything solid.
I am expecting you to fail and show me a proneness to judgement and ego boasting... show me how wrong I am.
And indeed, thread locked, no failure, not even an attempt, no point. I had to thank you for also being predictable when someone
pushes you to try and stand strong.
[one coffe later] hmmm... so, the request was: Conflict resolution within a group -
And the guys I asked solve conflicts by locking threads. Interesting. My bad. Wrong assumption on my side, I was looking for admirable people
who can handle conflict right here, I dared to pay you the respect of assuming intelligence in this place.[/coffee]
Back to your regularly scheduled soccer chatters.. shame on both the ..thing.. and Mage for theyre making theyre own point moot,
and shame on me for assuming anything worthwhile would come out of them, will not make that mistake again.
You provoked it by mixing up biased and free assumptions and advice, and the thread only got locked
by yourself when you ran short of arguments, that's all, don't try to turn it the other way round: be a man,
again, before trying to tell others what you think a man is.
I've seen bunches of threads containing insults and not getting locked.
You're not being the bigger person here, you land there with a glorious piece of advice: "nobody likes you"
It's not the form I am questionning, it's the contents.
There still is none: you don't know me, my relatives, my Mom, my colleagues. But you showed me how strong you are at
solving conflicts. Short of agressive assumptions? Incapable of making them match any reality? Click-lock - and it obviously
was coming from the fact your agression was based on no foundation.
The question is: "how do I deal with recurring patterns", the original question is questionning myself and taking responsibility
for what I really do to end up in those situations, just sit, think, and tell me, how relevant was your assumption that
"nobody likes me" to my request? How appropriate? How correct, founded? And how original? The thread was about finding
advice to evolve, see some redundancy in your own post?
Put it on the right scale: I am again paying you the favor of politely, this time, assuming you have a brain,
make my day, answer the questions in this post.
<wanders off to watch something on his new 20 inches display...> I am now expecting the click-lock episode two,
or a point. My little finger is laughingly convinced the click-lock will happen.
As my last, disappointed note about this issue, acts like that make this place look dull, think about that for yourself Jestah.
I still love some of the forums and posters, but this act from you was pure pollution, for it takes the courage of braves to
question theyre own actions.
As much as I am capable of wondering why on my side, I expect you - if click-lock 2 does not occur - to remain on your obviously empty
position. Why empty? Because since you don't know any physical surrounding of me, everything you said implicitely are assumptions.
And why do I expect you to try to defend a point which is moot from the moment you are speaking on behalf of my relatives?
Because now that I have seen a blatant display of weak click-clock, I now you don't have what it takes for introspection yourself,
you just won't be able to admit you've built up a poor assault over nothing.
I'd be soo glad to be surprised positively, but disappointment and a dull mod making a cool place look as dull, it's all I see. Please, surprise me, show me a bright side, a quality of yours that brings some colour into this grey nonsense.
And I hit the jackpot once more: ^avoids making a point.
Listen, Jestah, and take it personal: you've not earned respect from me,
not made a point, not helped, nor tried to help, just ran away from making sense, you've been repeating the
"you're a child routine" all the time, you've totally seconded my calling you empty - in facts, your posts in these two threads have nothing
in them - at all, there is reality and your off-track banter.
Each one of your answers is just announced in my previous post:
"he will avoid making a point - bang.
"Please show me a quality - bang. bang."
"You're incapable of taking responsibility for your faults - total strike".
I say you'll do it, and there you go, as when I was a child indeed, 20 and some years ago.
Granted, we're in an Asylum, but to me you're now labelled true loon, idiot was incorrect, it's sicker than that.
Last favor for today: just avoid me anytime, anywhere, I have limited psy competencies and am tired of dealing with your case.
Open up the phonebook, letters p-s-y, and call, your sanity is not my job.
---> shame on me for assuming anything worthwhile would come out of them, will not make that mistake again.
4 posts ago. Predictable, weak, crazy, stay away from me.
[shower time] Eeek. makes me feel dirty for having even talked to that guy. Free from a padded cell? Frustrated to the extent
of picking the "you're a child" line and sticking to it for the lack of anything worthy to say? For fun? Eeek. Sick, sick, sick person.
....vomits[/shower time]
(common sense, where art thou? sense? a point? something I can use in the guy's words? HelllOooooooO?
A head? A tail? An answer to anything I asked? A bible coded message, perhaps? Houston? Planet Mars? E.T has lost his way home, please take him back, this planet is too much for him.
...Unless... got it! Crack. Probably pounds of crack. He is a dealer in disguise and he smoked it all before hitting the Asylum today!
...Asylum update request? A tip saying "basehead ahead, talk with him at your own risks - and avoid feeding after midnight....
...Calling the "wildlife" shows to get an expert advice? Mulder! Anyhow, this thing should be locked or instructed to phone home)
No prob with that when asked politely, and I was considering the same thing, thanks, but TP...
I really don't understand the reactions above, and the whole thing from Jestah, he really does sound totally off and freely insulting to
ne from the start, I am not making this up, I am not understanding shit to what he is supposed to mean.
Since it doesn't make sense, I can take a whole year away, come back, and the same situation will reoccur with the same people over the same arguments.
I am obliging for my own sanity, but I hope you do get the point.
I have mailed Mage because at least, at some point, I was able to understand -some- of what he said, but if this simply is a disagreement between adults,
if it is not resolved, if I can not walk into your shoes and you into mine.
Upon my return, nothing will have changed.
Nonono... it's not realistic to ask that from me, it's stupid as a request. Actually, I am by the comp all day, have casual needs for php or dhtml,
it's really not a demand that makes sense.
At some point, I will hit this place in my favs and will land here.
If you've banned me, and I - have to ask things - I will subscribe to another user account, simply. If you ban my domain, you are likely
to ban people from Germany or Austria, etc.
And I HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING THREATENING TO ANYONE, merely replied to insults with insults.
So really, who's being the kid? Not sure, but if you want a sure fire way to make things worse, your request does just that.
If you want sure fire way to solve problems, then it's a different route altogether.
But anyhow.
I am *NOT* obliging to that. Would you be God himself.
It's a pain in the ass to have a brilliant logical side and a messy emotional side, and being aware of both.
Anyway, the clash with Jestah is... past! Thanks to the magic of icq. I am just posting this for further reference,
if anyone having the same difficulties I have happens to say "wtf?" and get irritated over it.
FWIW, Jestah and I have just smoked a peacepipe on Q, and he authorized me to post the above transcript.
What came out of it is:
- he is giving advice that I perceive * and somehow is * negative and provocative, "nobody likes you". It's so silly per se that I still bite my nails
at having exploded on this, was it his way to provoke a reflexion? Seems so. is it his way to communication? Mostly, it's an answer, whatever it's worth, to a request from me,
and I now understand with certainty.. what had become clear in the midst of this whole mess.
The thread goes wrong from the moment personal stuff lands in a forum about webdesign and a few surrounding topics.
From the moment I am fail at defining boundaries between real world, orange boxes, pro, personal, the perception of others, reality, etc.
...Chills, farts, looks at the sun, and goes off for a walk.
Girls, no prob, my dear dear kimmy is just having my back, jus' a misunderstanding, and she's proving me she is a caring and wonderful friend but don't worry...
Looking forward to a chit-chat with you tomorrow!
From: buttcrack of the midwest Insane since: Oct 2000
posted 06-20-2006 14:40
So, why must we air our pissing contests in public ?
I`m so tired of coming here and reading this crap. You all need to get over yourselves, and PLEASE take this childish bullshit somewhere else..after all, this is not a Drama forum, is it ?
posted 06-15-2006 03:32
If I had a need for them to sign, "make a point => I am locking the thread (and have none)", I have to applaude this dual demonstration
by this abuse of technology 